Why relationships fail always

There are many reasons why relationships fail. These are just the top 3 that I consider common mistakes women make.

1. Lack of communication

Why relationships fail is greatly do to the lack of communication. It's no surprise that men and women are different, but what we forget is that men think differently from us too. We want men to act in a certain way, do things, say things. However when they don't do what we expect them to do we get angry and frustrated and the anger just builds up more and more every time.

So what we need to understand is that men are not psychics, you need to tell them exactly what you want. The worst mistake that women make is to assume that men know what you want. If you have a problem or you need to tell him something make sure that you find the right time to tell him.

For example is you need to discuss something that has been bothering you for some time, when he is watching football on t.v .is not the best time.

Your tone of voice is very important, don't scream at him, make sure you talk to him in your normal tone of voice.

2. Expecting to change him

You either like the way he is or not. Many women take this "sport" for trying to change men to fit their ideal prince charming, just to be disappointed at the end.

Everyone is different and the difference is what makes life so interesting. That's why when you are with someone you have to accept them for who they are, you can't just change people.

But there are so many women that say that if he "truly" loves me he would change. However, what you need to understand is that if you truly love him, you need to accept him just the way he is.

3. Not truly loving him

This is perhaps the most obvious reason, yet it is the hardest one to see. Did you truly loved him? Or did you just wanted someone to take you out to dinner, tell you how pretty you looked, someone to talk to, etc.?

If so, what you had was just a friendship. When you love someone is when you are already happy, he only makes you happier. All of those things are not priorities they are just extras. When you love someone you already love yourself and you accept the way he is. You didn't love him, you were actually in love with the ideas of being in love, but not actually with that person.

Now that you know why relationships fail it is up to you to make a difference in your life.

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