Ten things men hate about women

Men hate many annoying things women do. Read the following guide and make sure you are not on any of those categories.

1. Not being able to make up their minds. Saying, whatever you say is ok.

The reason why this drives men crazy, it's because of the lack of self-esteem in a woman. It shows that you are insecure, and that you don't know what to do unless there is someone to tell you what to do. Men hate women who are not able to make up their own minds.

Men like women who know who they are and are able to make their own choices. This shows that you appreciate who you are and that you know what you want out of life

2. Saying that you are fat.

Men are not obsess about weight as we women are. So for them to be hearing over and over again "I'm fat", it can be very annoying.

Men look at women differently, they love us for who we are. They don't care about those extra pounds. Believe me, stop worrying about those extra pounds and start enjoying your moments together with him.

If you do happen to be extremely over weight, then make a commitment to loose weight more for health reasons. Don't make having to loose weight as your center of your life. Enjoy life and loose weight on the side.

3. Not giving guys their own space.

Yes, you love him and he love you. However there are times when men need their own space. It's not that they don't like to spend time with you, but they do need time to do what they like.

This is not only important for men, but for women too. This is where you can catch up with some female friends and catch a chick flick. Or go and get a manicure.

Men and women are different and it's important to respect each other's interests. There is nothing more that men hate than a women who smothers them all the time.

4. Pressuring them for commitment when they are not ready.

Men know right away if they want to spend the rest of their lives with a women. If months or years have pass by and there isn't a signal of him wanting to commit, then it's time to reconsider your relationship.

If you are planning on having a house and kids, but he does not seem as excited as you, then you need to find someone who is.

Instead of pressuring him to get marry, you have to evaluate your current situation. It is tough, but it's better to do it now than keep wasting your time with someone who you have no future with.

5. Not being secure.

There is nothing more sexy than a woman who has a high self-esteem. Insecure women are not really themselves, instead they try to please everyone so they can be with someone. Men don't like this.

They admire more a woman who is sure of who she is and doesn't let people walk all over her. In a way this is more attractive to them than a women who always says and does whatever men want.

6. Trying to change them.

You have to accept men for who they are. If you think that you can magically change them, you are just going to be disappointed at the end. The only reason they are going to change is if they want to change.

For example if someone smokes and you want him to quit. He may pretend he is not smoking he may not even do it in front of you. But the only way he is gong to quit is if he decides to stop, not because you tell him to.

Besides men don't like to be told what they should and should not do. This is something men hate. Instead of changing him, you are going to turn him against you.

If you are thinking about getting marry and want to change some things about him, reconsider your marriage!!! Just because you sign a paper, it won't give you special powers over him to change him. You have to accept him just the way he is.

7. Talking about your relationships from the past.

Whether your relationship was good or bad, he doesn't want to hear about it. Your past relationship(s) are in the past there is no need to tell him how John was good at fixing your car, or how Michael was always on time for a date.

Men hate to be compared with other men. After all would you like to be compared with his previous girlfriends?

8. Not taking care of yourself.

He loves you for who you are, but not taking care of yourself is a big mistake. Just because he decided to spend the rest of his life with you, it does not mean you should stop looking good.

If you are not the type of person that goes and gets manicures, you should make sure to have your nails well trim and clean.

If you don't go and get the latest hair style, you should always keep your hair clean and combed.

If you have gain a huge amount of weight, it's time to start heading out to the gym.

Don't loose yourself! You should always try to look your best, not just for him but for you too. Men hate women who loose interest in themselves. Don't let yourself be one of them.

9. Expecting guys to read your mind.

It there is something that is bothering you, you should tell him right away. If you think that if he loves me, he should know better, etc. Not only are you getting mad but he will also get mad because he has no ideas what is going on. Men hate when a woman expects him to read her mind!!

You need to communicate as much as possible, this is the most important thing in any relationship. You have to be able to tell him what you like and what you don't like. If you don't most likely he'll do what you don't like again.

10. Being too jealous.

Jealousy is another sign of insecurity. Being just a bit jealous it's o.k. now and then, this shows him that you care about him. However when your jealousy becomes an obsession then there is a problem.

You have to work on your self-esteem. It really has nothing to do about him, it's about you. When you become a secure person and know who you are, your jealousy levels will drop.

So this are the top 10 things men hate about women. Hopefully you are able to change them so you can have a better relationship.

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