Finding Mr. Right or Mr. Right now ?

So are you trying to find "Mr. right" or "Mr. right now"? Although they both sound the same they do have different meanings. Mr. Right can be seem as someone who you can grow old with and share your life during good and bad times. Mr. Right Now is just someone to go out and have fun with for a while until you get bored with him.

Depending on your lifestyle either one can be right for you. First of all you have to stop and analyze your life for a moment. At this time are you ready to settle down with someone or do you still want to enjoy your singlehood?

Having this in mind is also important when you go out with someone, men just like women might be looking for "the one" or just "the one right now". That way you don't want to waste your time going out with someone who is just looking to have fun, when you are really seeking someone to share your life with. This can also work the other way around, you might be looking for someone just to relax and enjoy a nice evening, but he might be wanting a life partner.

Reasons for wanting Mr. right:

You want to start a family of your own.

You want to have someone to count on all the time.

Your are tired of going on meaningless dates.

You want to be able to be with a man who knows who you are and would never change you for the world.

You are tired of getting an "empty" feeling when you go out with someone new all the time.

You may be a single mom and feel that your child (or children) need a fatherly figure.

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Reasons for wanting Mr. Right Now:

Perhaps your current job doesn't allow to have all the free time you wish you have. After all love is just like a plant, you have to water it, if not it dies.

You may want to accomplish different personal goals. Perhaps you just want to see all the different options out there.

You have other priorities, such as school or a career.

You are not ready to say goodbye to your independence and freedom.

You have more fun going out with different people than committing to just one man.

You have to travel all the time due to your job and can't spend too much time in just one place.

You don't feel that you are ready to quite settle down.

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