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You deserve to find love and happiness today!

To find love is one of life's greatest gift. It's a great feeling to wake up every morning knowing that there is someone that loves you as much as you love him.

However, not too many people are willing to open their hearts to let love in. Not that there is anything wrong with you. Just the way that you look at love and life in general.

This can be caused by many factors such as:

• Fear of being rejected
• Fears of being physically and/or emotionally hurt
• Thinking that you don't deserve to be happy and have someone in your life
• Still loving (or more like being obsess) someone that doesn't love you back
• Having TOO high expectations of men
• Thinking that he is just going to dump you, so why even try.
• Holding into the pain after going through a breakup

But if you want to find love you have to make this decision. No one else can make it but you. You have to choose happiness over fear!

Let go of your fear

Yes, I know that you might be afraid to get your heart broken. But if you don't take that chance, think that you are missing out on having a wonderful person that can care, protect, and love you.

You deserve to find love

You may even think that there is no one that can truly love you. This is an idea that you have placed in your head. Everyone deserves to be loved. Including you

Love is not just for the "lucky" ones.

Letting go of the past

The past can hold us prisoners if we are not careful.

One way it can be the way we hold onto the pain of a breakup.

We rather stay single for the rest of our life, rather than taking a chance of finding someone. We allow the pain to remain here in the present, just as it was a few years ago. Let go of it! Only you can decide to let it go.

Let him go

Another way why you can't find love is because you are still thinking of someone from your past.

If things didn't work out back then, why should now be any different? This is just being stubborn.

As much painful as it is, if he said I don't love you, it means I don't love you. Don't think that by magic one day he is going to knock on your door and tell you that he wants to marry you. This is truly unrealistic and just a waste of your time.

I know this because it happened to me. And I don't want you to go through the same pain. So please, please, get rid of him for good.

One way to do this is by thinking of all the bad and negative stuff about him. When we are in love, we think only of the good things, but if you truly open your eyes, you'll be glad he said "I don't love you".

Be careful what you think

Hating, or being jealous of those who have someone, only makes you search harder. This negative energy surrounds you and scares people away.

Instead be happy for those couples. Tell yourself I"m glad for so and so and I want to find someone that ____________,_______________, etc.

Make a list of what you want in someone. Besides you won't be able to find him if you don't know what you are looking for.

Today is a new day, today is the day when you can find love and happiness.

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